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In my last blog, I described my thought-provoking first meeting with Max. At the time of our meeting, he was a rescue horse with a dangerous, dark side.

Max had been known to attack people on occasion. So, to keep myself safe, I had to teach him that I didn’t approve of biting. I did this by smacking his nose when he tried to bite me. He never tried it again. As it turned out, this experience set the tone for the rest of our relationship.

I successfully moved Max from the horse rescue to the barn where I kept my other rescue horse, Banjo. As I began to work with Max, I found a gentle, willing soul. He was nothing like the vicious horse who’d been described by the rescue-facility staff. I marveled at Max’s sweet, goofy behavior.

Max was actually a comedian who loved to play. A rope hanging in the barn became the best toy ever!

After I taught him not to bite, never once did Max try to hurt me.

In fact, he was he was so loving and sweet, I often wondered if I’d gotten the wrong horse. I was confused. Why had a vicious horse suddenly changed into a sweet, friendly companion?

I came up with all kinds of theories. I finally chalked it up to horses’ intuitive instincts. Horses are masters at sensing our intentions.

My true intention with Max was to create a loving, respectful relationship with him. I wasn’t afraid to create healthy boundaries to keep myself safe.

Max had tested that boundary once in the beginning. He needed to know that I’d follow through. Afterward, he was content to respect my boundaries and leadership. I’d proven myself trustworthy in his eyes. He was then safe to relax, to just be a horse.

Max did still test my boundaries from time to time, just to keep it interesting, but there was no viciousness in his actions.

Over the weeks that followed, Max excelled in his training. He’s one of the smartest horses I’ve ever known. He loved his lessons. He’d greet me at the pasture gate when I drove into the barn.

As I worked with Max, I realized he was also teaching me an important life lesson—that I could maintain boundaries and still have healthy relationships.

In fact, I learned that boundaries are vital to healthy, successful relationships with both horses and people.

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Hope’s Legacy Equine Rescue was founded in 2008 when we took in our first donkey. Since then they have taken in over 450 horses, ponies, mules, and donkeys.

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